We have to coach our negatively wired brains to find and embrace the AND. When we find it, we need to say it out
Parenting
What’s in a Team?
By Melissa Stefanec MelissaStefanec@yahoo.com Our society is obsessed with superheroes. When it comes to idolization, many adults (and children alike), put superheroes
An Ordinary Midsummer Bucket List
By Melissa Stefanec MelissaStefanec@yahoo.com In Shakespeare’s iconic play, “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” there are jaded lovers, mischievous fairies, spells and love triangles.
The Beauty of Being Terrible
By Melissa Stefanec MelissaStefanec@yahoo.com As the parent of two children who enjoy making music, the end of the school year meant quite a few
Is Your Vehicle Ready for Summer?
By Melissa Stefanec MelissaStefanec@yahoo.com After what feels like months of grayness, snow, rain and cold, my family is more than ready for
Adolescent Girls Are So …
By Melissa Stefanec MelissaStefanec@yahoo.com What would you say if you were asked to finish that headline? Would you say difficult? Or maybe 13
A Little Amazing
By Melissa Stefanec MelissaStefanec@yahoo.com Words are powerful. They can hurt and heal. They can discourage or inspire — create or destroy. Throughout our lives,
When It’s All Too Much, Set Boundaries
Some days, I wish I had an off switch. As a parent, I often find myself feeling like my life is a never-ending to-do
A Love Letter to My Body
In honor of the month of love, this column will be about how much I love my body. I will start with a poem.
A Letter to All of My Failures
By Melissa Stefanec Being a parent means experiencing many contradictory things at once. Parenting is both beautiful and scary. Miraculous and redundant. Exhausting and

